WhosFreeWhen?

The free family reunion planner

Plan a family reunion without the family group-chat drama

Cousins in three states, grandparents who don't text, and everyone with an opinion about the date. Collect the whole family's availability in one place and see which date works best.

Free to get started

When are you thinking?

How precise should availability be?

One answer per date. Best for picking a day for a night out or a trip.

You'll get a shareable link. Send it to every household by text, email or the family group chat. Everyone taps the dates they're free. You see instantly which date works for the most people.

No account for relativesWorks on any phone or computerAny family sizeReady in seconds

Picking the date is the hardest part

The barbecue menu sorts itself out. The real challenge is one date that works across several households, school calendars, vacation plans and time zones. Get the date right and the rest follows.

Easy for everyone

Each relative opens the link and taps the dates they're free. No account, no download, works for grandparents too.

See the best date instantly

A color-coded calendar shows which dates have the most family members free. No spreadsheet, no phone tree.

One source of truth

Everyone sees the same answers, so nobody can say they “already told you” they couldn't make July.

How to find the best date for a family reunion

  1. 1

    Create your reunion event

    Name it, pick the date range you're considering, and choose single days or multi-day stays. Ten seconds.

  2. 2

    Share the link with every household

    Text it, email it or drop it in the family group chat. Nobody needs an account to open it.

  3. 3

    Everyone taps the dates they're free

    Under a minute per person on any phone or computer. Relatives can update their answer if plans change.

  4. 4

    Lock in the winning date

    Pick the date that works for the most people, and especially the ones the reunion is built around.

The 5-minute family reunion plan

A smooth reunion comes down to six steps, in this order.

  1. 1
    Recruit a small planning team. One contact per branch of the family. They handle their own household's questions and follow-ups.
  2. 2
    Pick the date first. Poll every household six to twelve months out. Check it works for the oldest generation before anything else.
  3. 3
    Choose the location. Central to where most people live, or a meaningful place like a family hometown. Check accessibility.
  4. 4
    Agree how costs are split. Per household, per adult, or everyone covers their own travel. Decide before you put down deposits.
  5. 5
    Plan a loose schedule. A shared meal, a group photo and one activity for the kids. Leave plenty of time to just catch up.
  6. 6
    Keep everyone in the loop. Confirm the date, share details in one place and send a reminder a few weeks out.

When should you hold the reunion?

Each time of year has trade-offs. Here's the honest ranking:

Late June to mid-August

The classic window. School is out, the weather is reliable, and outdoor venues are open. Book early because it's popular.

Early fall

Underrated. Cheaper travel, milder weather, and fewer competing vacations. Weekends only if there are school-age kids.

Holiday long weekends

Memorial Day, the Fourth of July and Labor Day give an extra day off, but flights and rentals cost more and many families already have plans.

Back-to-school weeks

Late August into early September is crowded for families with kids. Check school calendars before polling these dates.

Saturdays get the best turnout for one-day reunions. For weekend reunions, Friday to Sunday gives travelers time to arrive.

Common family reunion mistakes

  • Booking the venue before picking the date

    A deposit on a park pavilion for a weekend half the family can't make is money gone. Date first, then venue.

  • Deciding the date in the family group chat

    Twenty relatives, three side conversations and no clear answer. A shared availability link puts every answer in one place.

  • Starting too late

    Two months isn't enough for anyone who needs to fly. Start six to twelve months out for a big reunion.

  • Forgetting the oldest generation

    Accessibility, mobility, and the fact that grandparents may not see a text. Check in with them directly.

  • Over-planning the day

    A packed schedule leaves no time for the thing people came for: catching up. Keep the agenda light.

Frequently asked questions

How far in advance should you plan a family reunion?
Six to twelve months for a large or out-of-town reunion, so people can book travel and request time off. A local get-together for one afternoon can come together in two to three months.
When is the best time of year for a family reunion?
Summer is the most popular, from late June to mid-August, because school is out and the weather is reliable. Long weekends work well too, but flights and rentals cost more. Avoid the weeks around back-to-school and major holidays unless the reunion is part of them.
How do you find the best date for a family reunion?
Collect everyone's availability before you suggest a date. Send one shared availability link to every household, give a date range of a few weeks or a summer, and set a reply deadline. Then pick the date that works for the most people, checking first that it suits the relatives the reunion is built around.
What's the best tool to find a date for a family reunion?
A shared availability calendar works better than a group chat, an email thread or a spreadsheet, because everyone answers in one place and the best date is calculated for you. WhosFreeWhen? is free, works in any browser, and nobody in the family needs an account or an app to respond.
How do I get older relatives to respond?
Keep it simple. The link opens in any phone or computer browser with nothing to install, so most people can answer in under a minute. For anyone who isn't online, a younger relative can enter their availability for them.
Should a family reunion be one day or a whole weekend?
It depends on how far people travel. If most of the family is local, a single afternoon barbecue or picnic works well. If people are flying in, a weekend makes the trip worthwhile and gives everyone more time together.
What if some branches of the family can't make any date?
With a big family, someone almost always can't. Prioritize the people the reunion is built around, often the grandparents or the oldest generation, then pick the date with the best turnout. A video call during the event helps include anyone who can't travel.
How do we split the cost of a family reunion?
Common options are a per-household contribution, a per-person fee for adults with kids free, or each household covering its own travel and lodging while sharing food costs. Agree the approach before booking a venue.
Is WhosFreeWhen? free?
Yes. The free plan covers one active event for a small group, and nobody responding ever needs an account. Pro is a one-time upgrade for bigger families, longer date ranges and extras like reminders.

Ready to get the whole family together?

Find the date that works for the most relatives. Free, no sign-up, no app for anyone to download. Just a shareable link.

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